Home Remedies for the Soul

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Finding Inner Peace

When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice. Cherokee Expression

Be glad of life, because it gives you the chance to love and to work and to play and to look up at the stars. Henry Van Dyke

There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as if everything is. Albert Einstein

Life is a precious commodity we all take for granted. We only get one chance at this life. Don't throw it away on useless anger. - R. L. Collins

True Love And The Power Of Silence

by Allison Whitehead

Have you ever been out to dinner and noticed a couple having their meal and not talking to each other? If you have you may have thought that the couple had been arguing. But this is not necessarily true.

When we are first trying to get to know someone, it is not unusual to feel compelled to keep talking. Periods of silence are uncomfortable because we are not use to the other person's company.

When the relationship deepens we gain comfort in these periods of silence. We know enough about one another to enjoy being together without constantly having to rely on words to convey how we feel. Have you ever seen something that amused you, only to look at your partner and know instinctively that they have seen and felt the same thing?

The longer a couple has been together the more likely it is that they will experience periods of silence together. Not because they have run out of things to say to each other, but because they understand one another and they enjoy simply being in each other's company. Love deepens over time and true soul mates communicate in many ways - not just with words.

I can spend several hours working opposite my partner (we have our own business) and we might never say a word to each other. But we share a closeness that I can actually feel - even when we don't utter a word, or share even the briefest of touches.

The most powerful feelings and emotions don't always need words to express themselves. Silence can be the loudest and most obvious communication of all.


Finding Inner Peace

Do you want to have more inner peace? You can accomplish your goal by taking steps that will help you grow physically, mentally and financially.

Focus on your health. Get plenty of aerobic exercise and eat an abundance of nutritious food every day. Do activities such as jogging, cycling, swimming or brisk walking at least thirty minutes almost every day. Follow the established nutrition guidelines.

Reduce the amount of time you spend harboring negative emotions. Do not get mad over little things. Avoid carrying grudges and hatred in your heart.

Handle your stress properly. When you feel tense or pressed, take a deep breath and remember that your performance, health and level of inner peace will be affected negatively by an overload of stress. Have you heard the phrase that says, "Rise to the occasion?" When it is very important to perform at your best level, you must relax and totally concentrate on your task.

Do not be ashamed to cry or express your anger in a harmless manner. If you want or need to cry or scream, please do so because it will help you feel better; furthermore, suppressing your grief or anger will hurt your immune system.

Laugh alone and with others at things that are funny but harmless. Laugh at things that have already happened. If you think of something funny around others, do not laugh too loudly.

Think positively. Turn negative experiences into positive experiences by contemplating the benefits that may come from what has happened. For example, if you lose a few dollars you put into a side pocket or shallow back pocket, you can use this error to become more careful and avoid losing a lot more money in the future.

Do not dwell on the past. This is counterproductive and will not bring you peace of mind. Only use bad memories of your past to avoid repeating your mistakes.

Think about your good experiences as much as possible. Use these good memories to become happier.

Be courteous to others. Being mean brings guilt and a lack of inner peace.

Volunteer your time at least occasionally. Help others in need.

To increase your chances of feeling comfort and peace of mind in your golden years, prepare for your retirement. Create and stick to a budget. Save at least ten percent of your income. Take advantage of any retirement accounts provided by your employer.

Use your physical and mental energy to do good things. Do what you can to make a difference.

How to find Love

Sometimes you have to give yourself what you wish you could get from someone else, love. If you do not love yourself, you will never find inner peace.

Forgive individuals for not being what you expected to them be. Forgiving others is the first step to finding inner peace. Remember when you look at others imperfections you are seeing those imperfections within yourself. Forgive and let go. Keep in mind most people are doing the best the can with what they know.

Life is sacred and something we all seem to take for granted. Remember we only get one chance at this life. Don't throw it away on useless anger. Anger devours souls. To find inner peace we must let go of that anger.

Have faith in yourself. Believe in yourself. The power lies within you to find inner peace. Remember the saying "Do not take life so seriously, you will never get out of it alive." Life is what you make of it, both the negative and the positive. Being at peace, is knowing you have done the best you can and be satisfied with where that has taken you.

Remember there will be another you. Love yourself and believe in yourself. Once you accomplish these things your soul will find inner peace.

Abundance

For many people, abundance and prosperity
are tied to their level of self-esteem.
You make a good living, pay your bills and
save money, so you feel successful.

I define success in a different light.
Being successful is not a matter of how much money you have,
how many possessions you've collected
or what type of lifestyle you live;
success can be measured only by the degree
to which you have inner peace and if,
no matter what the circumstance or situation,
you can remain peaceful, calm and happy.

Know that you deserve to be prosperous and that everything you need
to live your highest potential is within you right now.
Claim and accept it. -Susan Smith Jones Excerpted from Abundance Lives Inside of You


Peace

Peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, no trouble or no one to surround you. Peace means to be in the middle of these things and still be calm in your heart and mind.


Never Give Up

No matter what is going on, never give up. Develop the heart. Too much energy in your country is spent developing the mind instead of the heart. Develop the heart. Be compassionate. Not just to your friends but to everyone, be compassionate. Work for Peace, In your heart and in the world, work for peace. And I say it again Never give up no matter what is happening, no matter what is going on around you. Never Give Up. Dalai Lama
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